If you are tired of just waiting around for love and want to take some action then I have got a great tip for you. It is not about taking the lead in the relationship but rather to show him that you really want him and that way make him move closer to you.You see, guys are generally quite simple and men (just like women) are programmed to act a certain way. They have certain needs and desires which goes deep into the unconcious and if you can fill these needs he will fall crazy in love with you.
A man wants to feel needed. He wants to be your provider and care for his woman and family. This is rooted deep into a man’s subconcious. This is true even in this day and age when men and women are equal and a woman is not dependent on her man. Nevertheless, feeling useful and needed is important for a man and if you can fill this need for him and make him feel needed then you will make him happy and he is very likely to commit to you.
Many women has a vague idea of what this means. When a man gets un-employed for example they understand that this hurts his pride, feeling useful and being able to provide for his family is very important for a man and being out of work and not having enough financial means will often make him pull away from others. So making him feeling useful and needed is really the key both to attract a man and to keep him committed.
This need is unfortunately not present in most modern relationships and this creates problems. However, you can learn to fill this need and then trigger it over and over again.
Men wants to be admired and they feel that they have to earn your admiration and respect. So if you can make him feel like he is admired and respected then you “got him”. You can not however simply say that you admire him, he really has to feel he has earned it, not just by what you say but also in the way you act.
Falling in love is something that you can not control. It is an emotional reaction that just “happens”. Though, the reasons why this just happens is caused by the way the guy she is falling in love with acts. If a guy acts and behaves in a certain way it will make her fall in love with him.
It is the same for men as it is for women though women and men are not attracted to the same thing. There are certain aspects and ways of behaving that makes a man attracted to a woman and makes him fall in love with her.
These things are called “attraction triggers”. These are behaviors and ways of acting that attracts the opposite sex. Attraction Triggers for men are very different to attraction triggers for women. You can learn more about “Attraction Triggers” by clicking the image above to the left. It will take you to a site where you can download a free report about attraction triggers.
Unfortunately, attractive traits is often found in the wrong guys, that is guys who don’t treat you nicely and still you can not help but to love them even if they hurt you over and over again, so you keep coming back to them.
Now, the way men are attracted to women are different. First there is the physical aspect, like good looks and a well shaped figure, this will make a guy interested as men are very “visual” and react to what they see (this is why guys watch porn much more than women).
Note however that even though a pretty face and a great figure will attract a man, it is not enough to keep him interested and there are other ways both to attract a man and to keep him, so just keep on reading and I will reveal how it all fits together.
Then there is the “challenge part” of it. That is, a guy likes a challenge and if he has to work to get a woman to go out with him, he will value it much more than if gets a yes right a way. This is why “playing hard to get” works soo well.
However, the problem is that once he is together with you the challenge is over and he starts looking for a new one. So, playing hard to get might be a good way to get a guy, but then you need another strategy to keep him interested. Make him your Hero. Make him feel wanted, needed and loved. Boozt his ego.
This will have a truly amazing effect on him. He will see you differently. He will want to be there for you, to protect, help and please you. He will simply Love You More. Thought this might seem strange this is actually how a man’s mind work. Let him be your hero and he will love you and commit to you.
So how do you do that? How can you give him the satisfaction of feeling wanted, needed, loved and proud? The trick here is to give him little challenges all the time. This is easier than you might think. We are not talking about Big Things here but small, seemingly un-important things, that will make a big difference to him.
If you want to learn more about how this works and how to “trigger his HERO instinct” then you might want to take a look at this video. It is called: His Secret Obsession and it is a relationship program for women written by the relationship coach/expert James Bauer. The video will go more into detail of how attraction triggers work and how to use them.
So, time to take action and make this happen. You can start by clicking the link below and watch the video about His Secret Obsession.
